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Very little medicine reaches the baby, so usually there are no effects on the baby from this method of pain relief. Epidurals do have some drawbacks — they can cause a woman's blood pressure to drop and can make it difficult to pee. They can also cause itching, nausea, and headaches in the mother. The risks to the baby are minimal, but include problems caused by low blood pressure in the mother.
These drugs don't relieve pain, but they may help to calm and relax women who are very anxious. Sometimes they are used along with analgesics. These drugs can have effects on both the mother and baby, and are not often used.
They also can make it difficult for women to remember the details of the birth. Discuss the risks of tranquilizers with your doctor. Some women choose to give birth using no medicine at all, relying instead on relaxation techniques and controlled breathing for pain.
If you'd like to experience childbirth without pain medicine, discuss this with your health care provider. You'll want to review your pain control options with the person who'll be delivering your baby. Find out what's available, how effective they're likely to be, and when it's best not to use some medicines.
If you want to use pain-control methods other than medicine, make sure your health care provider and the hospital staff know. You might want to also consider writing a birth plan that makes your preferences clear. Remember, many women make decisions about pain relief that they abandon — often for very good reason — at the last minute. We do this with stitches that dissolve. Tip: A new technique, called perineal massage, has been proven to decrease the amount of tearing with delivery.
Trust us, we are not paying attention to grooming! Most women will have a bowel movement in labor or with pushing. This is good! Every woman is different in how she recovers, too. Postpartum is an awesome time, but also stressful! It is often referred to as the 4th trimester.
Your sleep schedule changes, your body changes, and your interpersonal relationships change. If you choose to breastfeed, read up on our breastfeeding tips for new moms.
Many moms are surprised to know there is still a recovery period. You may have cramping, tailbone pain, and pain as a tear heals. Sometimes sitting and walking are tricky!
There are no true lifting restrictions after a vaginal delivery, but I recommend avoiding heavy lifting for about two weeks, especially from the ground. This puts a lot of stress on your pelvic floor as it heals. Helpful tips for going home include sitting on soft surfaces, using a spray bottle after you void, using ice pads, taking ibuprofen and Tylenol, and keeping an area of all the things you will need most to care for you and baby in your home.
The recovery from a C-section is longer because it is a major surgery. Wait six weeks before lifting anything greater than lbs. We will teach you how to care for your incision in the hospital and will send you home with pain medication. Home births double your risk of complications, with two times the risk of perinatal mortality and three times the risk of neonatal seizures. If you decide to give birth at home, you should have a low-risk pregnancy, the help of a certified midwife, and be reasonably close to a hospital.
Tip: Our first priorities are the health and safety of you and your baby. We will give you information and recommendations about safety and labor so you can make informed decisions throughout the process. Getting Ready for Baby How important are birthing classes? Who can be with me at the birth? What is the difference between a midwife and a doula?
Tip: A doula does not make medical recommendations or replace your midwife or doctor, but rather they offer extra services and individualized prenatal and labor support What will the labor and delivery room or birthing room look like?
What should I pack in my hospital bag? Here are some ideas for your hospital bag: Toiletries: Shampoo, conditioner, soap, toothbrush and toothpaste, hair brush, deodorant. Comfy clothes for you. Pushing at this point is a relief in some ways. The pain is still miserable, but pushing seems to ease it. As weird as it sounds, it's the same physical relief as pooping after you really needed to.
By the time you get to the 'ring of fire' which does burn, but mentally made it easier because it signifies the end , it really does feel exactly like pooping, which is weird. Literal fire in my nether regions. I honestly left my body for most of it. I felt like I was looking down on myself from above. The first birth of my daughter, it felt like my spine was going to break away from my body and the baby was just going to come out my spine and back instead.
Her labor was 16 hours and they had to break my water. I was seriously scared to push. I think that being so scared and unsure made transition and pushing longer. After she was born, I felt so drugged even though I hadn't had anything. I was so incredibly happy. My second birth of our son was so much faster.
Six total hours and just three after getting to the hospital. My water never broke and our son was born in the water sack. I couldn't tell if it was the speed of the birth or the fact that the water sack didn't break, but the ring of fire seemed less 'sharp and fiery' and more 'dispersed pressure and fiery,' so that was nice.
The back pain was still super intense but the pressure put on my back by my mom and the nurse was more helpful in easing the pain. I didn't have an out-of-body experience or euphoria this time; I was mainly in disbelief that we actually had two kids now! Physically, my first labor felt like immense waves of pain flowing over me.
I had a lot of back labor, so pain would focus in that area of my body as well.
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